I do not agree with the statement in which career and ego food are
equated. Ego food is what people do for themselves to enhance their ego.
You
feel better than your brother because your house is bigger than his and
your wife is prettier than his and your kids go to higher ranked
universities than his. That is ego food since it feeds your ego.
Career
goals are not ego food. You want to challenge yourself to enhance your
career, you are paying the price. That is humility not ego, quiet the
opposite, isn't it?
If career is to be equated to ego food,
then would we say Work and Job and Career are similar. Career is
something you do to enhance the life style of your loved ones
exponentially. When you have a great career your loved ones are proud
of you, your favorite charities are better supported, the fashion
industry and tourism industry make money, your stock broker makes a
better living and you are free to visit the island of your dreams
during school vaccations.
Ego
has a negative connotation and career should not. Ego is good so you
may distinguish yourself from your neighbor and every other human you
encounter every day including every family member.
Some monks
shave their head to be part of a group, some grow their hair for
identification with another group. Both claim it is to get rid of their
ego, which is true? Both in the end are acting out of ego to seemingly
eliminate their ego.
Every housewife works, she has work to do and she does it for free, no monetary remuneration. She has the gift of seeing a
clean house
and her family cared for. She may also has the resentment of being used
and not valued. The work she does is priceless but is neither a job nor
a career.
The cleaning lady has a job that pays her bills but is not a
career. Career is something you are proud about, since you paid the
price to earn it and are paying the price to keep it and enhance it.
Career has very little to do with qualifications earned from an
university. Career has more to do with your character, your
personality, your rational and your emotional mind. Career has to do
with self-worth, confidence, deservability, integrity, planning,
opportunity for growth, Career has to do with options, choices,
decisions and possibilities. A career needs to be nurtured and the
support of those benefiting from your career.
Let me know how I
maybe part of your pursuit in your career goals. As a trained clinical
hypnotherapist I work with 88% of who you are (your
subconscious mind,
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pathways) during the sessions, you work with 12% of who you are (your
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Sharmila Murthy M.S. C.Ht.Trainer in NLP(Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
Holistic Practitioner(Reiki, Huna)
805.275.2289